Have you noticed how some people remain stuck in the same painful space? For example a bad relationship, unsuitable job, no self-belief, being bullied, even physical illness. And you can add to the list.
They will remain there until they have learned what they were meant to learn about themselves, and only then will they move on.
If you are desperate for your circumstances to change so that you can experience less emotional or physical pain, maybe it is time to take a step back.
In every “bad” situation there is some “good” that you do not notice. The result is that you do not get the balanced view, which will take you to acceptance and new way of thinking and doing.
Ask yourself how you are benefiting from your circumstances, and what is it that you are not appreciating about your situation. For example, many people do not get well because their illness result in them getting attention that they would otherwise not get, and they do not want to lose that attention.
Love and Light
Elsabe
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Have you noticed what happens when you point a finger to the person who is to blame for your situation?
Point that finger, and see how many fingers point back directly to you.
Why would that be – apart from the way our hands and fingers were designed? Or maybe our hands were designed in that way on purpose?
Two things happen when we blame other people for what happens to us. The first is that we refuse to take responsibility for our share in the situation. And yes, every situation that involves you always has two sides – your side and the other side.
Have you noticed that when things go wrong in your life, the common denominator in all the trouble is you?
The other thing that happens is that the person who you think is to blame, is in fact showing you a side of yourself that is there, whether you like it or not. What do you do? You could say “but I am not like that at all” and get yourself to believe it. Or you could say “a part of me is like that, whether I like it or not, and I will Love that part of myself as well”.
Now, some people will read this and say “I am not a killer”, but they would not hesitate to post on their social media profile “I could kill someone today” or assasinate the character of another person with their words.
People that interact with us hold up a mirror to us with their behaviour and say “I am showing you a part of yourself that you do not accept and Love yet. What are you going to do about it?”
Love and Light
Elsabe
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Do you sometimes try to do things but then you do not succeed?
That exactly is the problem.
When you try, there is always a “but” in there. You start the action, knowing in your heart that you are not ready for it or have some objections.
Then the action fails and you blame the failure on other people or circumstances or the weather or anything you can find.
Trying is like being partly pregnant. Now try being partly pregnant – you can try any way you want, knowing that you are safe and it will not happen.
Aren’t we clever!
Love and Light
Elsabe
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Quickly write down three things you believe about yourself on a piece of paper. Put the paper in your pocket.
Now ask a few people that you have regular contact with to write down three things about you on separate pieces of paper.
Compare the notes.
Who said the positive things about you?
Who said the negative things about you?
Oh, and remember to express gratitude for what you feel when you read the notes.
Love and Light
Elsabe
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Do you realise that nothing on this earth exists unless someone has first imagined it?
What are you imagining for yourself?
Do you allow yourself to imagine in details, because you understand that imagination is the beginning of creation? Or do you only imagine a vague picture because you do not trust the process?
Do you allow yourself to dream big, or do you stay on safe grounds and dream small with no real challenge?
Love and Light
Elsabe
PS: I am The Intuition Coach. I help people who lack clarity, vision and purpose to remove their blocks, discover their intuition and achieve their goals. What is consuming all your energy? Visit www.TheIntuitionCoach.com for a FREE New Start Quiz.
Do you ever listen to what people say about you? Do you take other people’s opinions about you seriously?
This is my personal guideline for what people say about me:
If someone tells you that you are a horse, laugh it off – they are obviously having a bad day and it has nothing to do with you. If a second person tells you that you are a horse, look in the mirror – they may have a point. If a third person tells you that you are a horse, enter the Grand National, because they are telling the truth.
Our auras, what we say and how we behave reflect our inner state. People respond to the energy they pick up from us, and they act as mirrors for us. We need to be aware of what other people see in the mirror.
For example, a person feels inferior and unloved and expresses himself with verbal attacks on other people to prove at all costs that he is right. He is advised to change his approach and say “Have you considered this aspect?” rather than say “You are so stupid – I know better and you must listen to me”.
He does not hear the advice and continues with his behaviour. Then someone else says “Try saying: There are two sides to this. Here is one side and here is the other side. What do you think?” rather than “How can you talk such drivel? Let met tell you the truth, and listen carefully, because I am the master.”
However, the ego is still in the way, until one day when someone says “I cannot hear a word of what you are saying, because I am overwhelmed by how you are talking!”. Sadly, a really good message goes completely unnoticed, because the messenger gets in the way of the message. The result is a person who feels even lonelier and more unloved.
Sometimes we also hide a talent because of the same blind spot. For example, a person is always doodling and making little drawings. Somebody says “That is beautiful – why don’t you do it more often?” and the response is “No, this is nothing” and the drawings are hidden away.
Then a friend enters some of the drawings into a competition, and the unwilling artist wins – but runs away from the publicity and still says “it is nothing”.
Other friends notice this talent and ask for drawings. The artist feels comfortable with the requests, and slowly, slowly starts to trust the creative flow. He builds up confidence to the point where he not only responds to requests, but also experiments with new techniques. Then one day he realizes that he can trust his talent, and the resulting works of art are incredibly beautiful because they come from a sacred space.
You cannot reject the reflection in your mirror for ever.
Love and Light
Elsabe
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If you look back at your life, you will notice times that were quiet, and other times where there were much upheaval and lots of changes.
Think of the times when there was much upheaval. Notice the time lapse between these major changes for you. Can you see the pattern?
Here is something else that you may notice: major upheaval is followed by quiet times – times of settling down and beginning anew.
For me, these cycles last about nine years – sometimes more, sometimes less. And somehow, for me, the upheaval is bigger each time a cycle is completed. But the wonderful pattern continues – the void left by the changes is also bigger every time, and therefore the new cycle is also more powerful and more rewarding.
I have so much to look forward to.
Another interesting thing is that the changes in my life have a ripple effect – it also affects the people that I have contact with. I have a feeling that you should keep regular contact with me
Love and Light
Elsabe
PS: I am The Intuition Coach. I help people who lack clarity, vision and purpose to remove their blocks, discover their intuition and achieve their goals. What is consuming all your energy? Visit www.TheIntuitionCoach.com for a FREE New Start Quiz.
If you are saying no, is it because you have not had a reason for laughing?
Do you need a reason to laugh? No, you don’t. Just start laughing from your belly and feel how your body and state of mind changes.
You do not need to tell any jokes to laugh, because you will eventually run out of jokes and you will encounter offensive jokes.
What happens when you laugh from your belly? You massage your diaphragm, thorax, abdomen, heart, lungs and liver. The laughter stimulates the production of the alertness hormones catecholamines, which in turn cause the release of endorphins in the brain. Endorphins provide a sense of relaxation and well-being and dull the perception of pain.
Just laugh for the sake of laughing and see what a difference it makes.
Love and Light
Elsabe
PS: I am The Intuition Coach. I help people who lack clarity, vision and purpose to remove their blocks, discover their intuition and achieve their goals. What is consuming all your energy? Visit www.TheIntuitionCoach.com for a FREE New Start Quiz.
There are times when you are adamant about going in a particular direction. Then life steers you in another direction and you believe you have failed.
How do you deal with that?
Take a step back and look at the bigger picture. You could focus on your “failure” and make it worse, or you could see that experience as a necessary small step leading towards a big step and eventual success.
It is all about perception and going with the flow.
Love and Light
Elsabe
PS: I am The Intuition Coach. I help people who lack clarity, vision and purpose to remove their blocks, discover their intuition and achieve their goals. What is consuming all your energy? Visit www.TheIntuitionCoach.com for a FREE New Start Quiz.
There are times when I think that what I want to achieve is impossible.
When that happens, I remind myself of two examples of doing just that.
In terms of aerodynamic design, a bumble bee should not be able to fly at all – but nobody ever told the bee that!
A conference organizer, at the start of his career, was told to host an event for an unknown speaker. He felt quite daunted by the challenge of getting 5 000 people together for this event, but started working immediately. A few weeks later he had to get a bigger venue, because there were already 6 000 attendees. He was so busy organizing and marketing that he did not listen to anyone who tried to advise him.
He only discovered afterwards that nobody expected him to get more than 100 attendees interested in the event.
It is possible to achieve anything. Remember that, Elsabe!
Love and Light
Elsabe
PS: I am The Intuition Coach. I help people who lack clarity, vision and purpose to remove their blocks, discover their intuition and achieve their goals. What is consuming all your energy? Visit www.TheIntuitionCoach.com for a FREE New Start Quiz.
