Message received from the Pleiades on 26th January 2012:
“What does loving your neighbour mean? And who is your neighbour? This is another aspect of Love that we want to explain.
Your neighbour is really everyone on this planet, including tyrants, fraudsters, philosophers, bigamists – no matter how you want to label them.
Loving everyone on the planet is an easy task – as is proven by politicians all the time. Loving your neighbour is much more complex, because your neighbour includes family members, friends, the trouble-makers in your community and even your own body.
Here is your task for today: make a list of the people that you find difficult to Love, even though you know you are obliged to. Make a list of the people you Love but don’t like right now.
What do all these people have in common? You. If anything needs to change, you do,
How do you need to change? Ask yourself why you do not Love these people. In what way do you judge them? Then work on acceptance. Accept them as being different from you, and therefore complementing you. They will not change. You will need to change your view of them.
No, you do not need to do this all at once. Do it for one person at a time, and see how your Love grows.
“Today we want to explain the nature of breathing – and no, this is not a lesson in biology.
Breathing is of course a chemical process, because it sustains the body.
However, there is a philosophical aspect to breathing that you need to understand.
Breathing is about giving life. With your first in-breath as a new-born baby you receive the gift of life . We will not discuss the life of a foetus – we leave that for another day.
Your gift of life continues until you leave this existence. Every in-breath is a new gift.
Is your out-breath then not a gift? Yes, it also is, because it allows you to leave behind substances that are contrary to life. Every out-breath is a cleansing exercise.
This is not a yogic gimmick. This is ancient knowledge that we want to bring to the forefront of consciousness.
People in modern civilization have forgotten how to breathe. They express gratitude for tangible things, but forget to use the gift of life.
Message received from the Pleiades on 22 January 2012:
“Why does the sun keep shining? Because there is consistency. The sun will keep shining for a few million years to come.
In the same way your behaviour is consistent and will continue. We want to take your consistency to a much higher level in this explanation.
Of course your behaviour is consistent in the sense that you get up every morning and go to work, and so on. Or if you are not employed, you still have your daily routine and expectations.
This is not the consistency we are referring to.
You know that your life and routine is disrupted by small or larger conflict all the time. Sometimes this conflict is resolved quickly, and other times the conflict can be dragged on for months and even years before it is resolved. However, the conflict is consistently resolved and that is what we want to bring to your attention.
Your purpose on this earth is to experience and resolve conflict. And no, we are not war-mongers – there are enough of them on this earth already. We do not refer to conflict with other people. Our focus is on helping you resolve inner conflict that is reflected in the world that you live in. We manage the process that helps you resolve your own inner conflict.
Everything begins and ends with you, and you represent humanity. This is the case no matter how big or small you are, no matter how important or insignificant you deem yourself, no matter how you see yourself in relation to other people.
You are not only your brother’s keeper. You are your brother.
Where you cannot love your neighbour (yes, we have also read that book), you cannot love yourself. That is the conflict that will always be resolved, and that is the consistency that we are referring to.
“We want to explain some of the intricacies of Love. So many people are looking for Love, and will sacrifice anything to be in a loving relationship.
Love does not require sacrifice in any form. The thought of Love being proven by means of sacrifice was planted in the human psyche thousands of years ago as part of a manipulation that had nothing to do with Love.
Yes, you are thinking about Abraham and his son, Isaac. That had nothing to do with Love. We repeat: Love does not require sacrifice in any form.
Now go and consider all those Love relationships where you feel you sacrifice, and ask yourself how much Love will remain when you stop sacrificing. Every answer will bring you closer to self-Love. When you have self-Love, you are closer to understanding Love.”
“This is a message for all those people who believe in exclusivity. We are referring to religious people who believe only their religion is true. We are also referring to people who believe that no religion is true, because that is also a form of exclusivity if you want to exclude people from what is known as spirituality because they have religious beliefs. All of these beliefs are incomplete spirals.
When you accept that there will always be religious groups as long as people inhabit the earth, you are halfway there.
Accepting each one of those religions with everything they encompass will place you above exclusivity.
Accept that all religions have inherent forms of violence. Even if the violence is not physical, it is still there. Do not judge the violence. Accept it as part of the human condition.
Even the most saintly non-religious person has violence in them. To deny that is to judge, and to judge is to discover another spiral you need to complete.
I have been hesitant to go along this route for a few years now, but I have reached a point where I feel obliged to do what I have to do.
I have been receiving very interesting messages from entities that tell me they are from the Pleiades. I know this probably sounds a bit whacky, but the information I have been receiving makes so much sense that I have no problem signing my name next to the messages. There is an entire book on the topic of healing, the origins of which will make an interesting story when I am ready to tell the world.
Meanwhile, here goes:
“Blessed be. This is a message from the Pleiades to people of the earth. You are living in challenging times because the changes have not been completed yet.
A new human race is being born. We are not only referring to babies and small children with heightened intuitive abilities. We are talking about people of all ages who have awakened to their spirit, and whose physical bodies have been adapted to folow suit.
We will not go into the technicalities of this physical adaptation. Suffice to say that people cannot pay for any course, workshop or expert to obtain this adaptation or an imitation of it.
Those people whose bodies have been adapted after they have received the calling are aware of what has happened to them.
They have naturally withdrawn from using mind-altering substances such as alcohol and medication. They have made intuitive changes to their diets – and these changes are individual. There are no rules such as excluding meat or eating only organic foods.
The adapted bodies can live on any food that they choose, even food with added chemicals, because their bodies cleanse the food.
These chosen people – and there is no magic number of them – know that they have received our calling because they have slowed down and softened their approach to the world. They are truly now ‘in this world but not of this world’.
Over time these people will naturally be drawn to each other. Their individual strength will be grouped together and therein lies their power.
Yes, there will still be conflict because much work is not completed yet, but that is natural and part of the process.
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“I feel like my life stopped when I married this man and now I want to move on. How do I do it?”
It is interesting how, in some relationships, we grow emotionally and spiritually as part of the relationship, while in other relationships our lives are placed on hold and we only experience pain as part of the relationship
Why is it that we make a decision to enter some relationships, while we intuitively know that we are doing the wrong thing? This could relate to both a love, work or friendship relationship. In the moment that we make the decision we know it is the wrong decision. However, we seem to go on auto pilot and stay on this destructive path.
Often the decision has other consequences, for example you know that you are married to the wrong person, you know that you need to end the relationship at the first opportunity, but nevertheless you continue and have a child with this person. You justify the situation in every way you can think of, and finally the pain of staying where you are becomes greater than moving on.
Only at that point do you gather the courage to take that step out of the relationship.
Then why did you enter the relationship in the first place? Because you had a soul contract with the other person. As part of your destiny you needed to honour the contract.
What is the nature and purpose of the soul contract?
That differs from one relationship to the next. In some instances the purpose is to deal with physical or emotional violence and find your own inner strength that you otherwise would not be aware of. In other instances the purpose would be to discover your power to control your own life, and to take the control from the person you married and get your own life on track again.
Or you could for example need to experience emotional coldness from your partner so that you can understand the importance of acknowledging and dealing with your own emotions.
Where children are involved, part of your soul contract is to raise and nurture the child, because that child chose you and your partner as their parents. The child also chose particular emotional and spiritual experiences as part of their life path, and you and your partner represent those experiences.
Either way, at some point that soul contract between you and your partner comes to a natural end. When that happens, you find the strength to walk away from the relationship.
Does this mean the end of the relationship? No. Yes, you do realise that you have placed a large part of your life on hold, and you suddenly have the energy and inclination to continue with activities that you had left behind at the beginning of the destructive relationship.
However, this is only the beginning of the resumed personal growth. You truly get back on track when you look back at the relationship and discover the wisdom that you were meant to discover in the process.
Look back at the blessings from the relationship, for example your children, knowing how wrong it is to marry for pity rather than love, understanding the importance of listening to your intuition, finding your own power and using that to build your ideal future for yourself.
When you are ready to leave the relationship, you will discover how help comes your way in many forms – from physical help in moving house to making new friends that help you feel comfortable being your new self, to support from your children who want to see you happy and intuitively have a better grasp on the situation that you often give then credit for.
The first step is to stop castigating yourself for making a “wrong” decision and look for the wisdom and the blessings. The rest will follow naturally.
Are you stuck in a marriage or a relationship that feels stifling? Are you hesitant to leave a relationship that stunts your growth?
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“My relationship has been going nowhere for the past few months. Should I stay or go?”
Where a relationship seems to stagnate, there can be various reasons. In this instance both partners have been going through an intense personal transformation that resulted in them questioning everything about themselves, including their relationship.
During this transformation phase, communication between them petered out, because they were each in their own bubble, and each wanted to first deal with the issues at hand before they discuss anything with their partners.
Neither of them wanted to appear weak, and both were waiting for the moment of appearing strong before they would have any intimate conversation again. In any love relationship intimate conversation is required on a regular basis. Where the relationship is strong, both partners are willing to appear “naked” in all senses, including an emotional honesty.
In this instance, the relationship was strong before they each embarked on their personal journeys, and it will be strong in future again.
At the moment there is an emotional vacuum between them that will be bridged when they have completed their personal journeys. As a result of this vacuum neither of the partners is willing to share their emotions.
However, both of them also understand that the relationship has not come to an end yet. They will reach a critical point where they will have to resolve some conflict and that will get them talking again. They will have much to say to each other, and both will be able to explain their personal journeys.
This discussion will herald the beginning of a new phase in the relationship where there will be a higher level of intimacy and understanding.
When a relationship reaches this point of apparent stagnation, a psychic reading will help to confirm to the partners what they already know intuitively about the relationship. The information they get will take away some of the anxiety that they both feel at the moment, and help them clear up the confusion and lack of communication sooner rather than later.
Unlike this relationship, there are other situations where a relationship comes to a natural end and on the surface it stagnates because neither of the partners is willing to move forward and acknowledge the end of the relationship. They may continue as if everything is well until they meet someone else, and then they have to deal with the excitement of a new relationship and the pain of finally letting go of the old relationship.
Sometimes fear of the unknown makes a stagnant relationship look like the more viable option, until the pain of staying in the relationship becomes more than the pain of moving on and leaving the relationship behind. At this point a psychic reading can give both partners the clarity they require to make decisions about their future.
Are you in a relationship that feels stagnant at the moment? Do you want to get clarity about the future of your relationship?
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“My wife left me for another man. How do I get her back? “
There are a number of important issues to note about this situation.
Firstly, there is a past relationship that may or may not continue. Two people enter a love relationship for a reason, called a soul contract. They may not be consciously aware of this, but every relationship has an agenda. When the relationship is romantic rather than for example work or relatives, we tend to gloss over the agenda even when it becomes very visible.
Shakespeare wrote in The Merchant of Venice as far back as 1596 that love is blind. This saying was taken up in the Afrikaans culture with the addition of “marriage provides the glasses”. It appears that this is not just a saying – a research study in 2004 by University College London found that feelings of love suppressed the activity of the areas of the brain that control critical thought.
In this instance it appears that the gentleman (let’s call him Jim) is still very much in love with his wife. She may even by now be an ex-wife, but he is still thinking of her as his wife with a sense of ownership.
Jim wants to create the impression that the relationship was perfect until the other man entered the picture. However, no relationship is perfect.
Add to that the fact that every relationship reaches a natural end, and you start to wonder whether there is a future for this relationship.
Of course a relationship can be rekindled, but that is only a success when a second phase of the relationship is part of the soul contracts of the people involved.
So how does Jim get his wife back?
There are a number of things that Jim needs to be aware of.
The first is that he needs to be realistic about what he and his wife left behind. It was not always as good as he recalls, and the way to get a balanced view of the past is to also recognise the downside of every sweet memory.
Secondly he needs to understand that if the relationship is rekindled, it will not be a continuation of the same relationship. Yes, the same people will be involved, but the dynamics of the relationship will have changed completely in that both parties have grown and changed during their separation.
When we are in a love relationship with a person, we develop routines and fixed ideas about our love partners. Where a separation takes place that involves a third party, there is every indication that those fixed ideas were at the bottom of the split. For example, if Jim assumed that he is the man in the house and therefore it is his role to make important decisions about the family unit, he may also have assumed that his wife is happy with the situation without even consulting her. This may have become so stifling for her that she was tempted to leave the relationship rather than continue to try and communicate her needs to Jim.
If this relationship is to be rekindled, the implication is that Jim will have to let go of some of the principles and ideas that have guided his behaviour, and that he will need to be much more aware of his wife’s needs and thoughts, as well as of his own realities.
And if the relationship has ended permanently, Jim will have to deal with feelings of loss, rejection, anger and other strong feelings before he will be able to heal and move on to a new relationship.
A psychic reading will help Jim to get some indication of whether there is a future in this relationship, and whether he should continue on his journey to get his wife back.
Of course a psychic reading cannot change people’s futures, but it can give an indication of what is already there in the sense that the outcome is created by both participants. If the cord that binds people in a love relationship is still in place, it may be stretched to the limit, or it may be frayed and ready to break. If the cord is no longer in place, then no matter how hard Jim tries, he will spend his energy on a futile cause.
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“I am female. My girlfriend is back with her ex-boyfriend. How do I deal with this?”
The first thought that comes to mind is betrayal and how to deal with that. There are three instances of betrayal here.
Let’s call the client Jane. She is being betrayed by the girlfriend (let’s call her Ann) who was in a relationship that went well with Jane, but Ann walked away because the pull of the past relationship with the man was stronger.
The next instance of betrayal is with Ann, who is betraying her true self, because she is not consistent in her behaviour. Ann is also betraying the trust of her ex-boyfriend because she does not seem to be committed to the relationship with him.
It is easy to judge Ann, because we are not in her shoes. So let’s take a step back and have another look at this situation.
Ann has a soul contract with her ex-boyfriend as well as with Jane. Of course Ann also has a life script that requires her to deal with her own sexuality and decide how she wants to express herself.
We need to understand the nature of sexuality and gender first. All of us have a male and a female side. We express our male side in terms of the rational, structured logical decisions in our lives. We also express our female side in terms of our emotions, feelings and everything related to Love.
Added to this expression, we also choose a physical body that confirms the main choice we make in terms of our own life script. The norm is that we choose a male body when we want to focus on a life script that deals with the more concrete aspects of life, and that we choose a female body when we want to focus on the more intangible aspects of life. However, at times the choice we make in terms of physical body reflects a duality related to our spiritual male/female aspect – where we make a choice that goes against the majority.
And do not for a moment believe that the majority is always right. For example, in terms of our male/female integration the “best” option is where we are eventually entirely spiritual, and we are both male and female without a physical body. As a human race we are not nearly there yet – but it is something to strive for,
Coming back to Ann and her betrayal – she obviously needs to make peace with who she is, and how she wants to express her sexuality. The way for her to reach that clarity is by having relationships – with Jane and with her ex-boyfriend.
There are a few sub-agendas here as well.
Firstly, there are both an ex-boy-friend and an ex-girlfriend, and either relationship can possibly be re-kindled. Is it a good idea to re-kindle a past relationship? There is no rule on this – it depends entirely on the relationship and the people involved. And of course where a relationship is re-kindled, there is a soul contract that needs to be honoured. Whether either relationship will be re-kindled or not depends entirely on the soul contracts of the individuals.
Secondly, there is the issue of rejection and being rejected. Both Jane and the ex-boyfriend need to deal with the rejection from Ann.
What if Ann decides to return to Jane? How will Jane deal with the past rejection? Will she blame Ann for having left her, or will she understand that she needs to deal with her own emotions? Will Jane decide to accept what has happened and move on, or will she always wonder when Ann is going to leave her again?
What if Ann decided to stay with the ex-boyfriend? How will she remember her past relationship with Jane – with fondness, self-blame, confusion, or anger towards either herself or Jane or both?
And how will Jane deal with the fact that Ann is not returning to her? Will she feel rejected, resigned, angry, lonely? Will she cling to hoping that the relationship will get back on track?
In this situation a non-judgmental psychic reading will help all three people to deal with the present and provide them with options in terms of their future, so that they can make their own choices and move towards healing and integration.
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