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We like to think that celebrities live a perfect life, because they are rich and famous. Take for example Angelina Jolie – famous, rich, married to a rich and famous man. What could possibly bother her that she cannot simply buy a solution for?
How about a rift with her father that lasted for ten years? No amount of shopping can take away such hurt.
In 2002 Angelina Jolie and her father Jon Voight had a serious argument. As a result they were publicly estranged until recently. The change in the situation came after what Jon Voight described as an “emotional epiphany” that altered his attitude in a moment.
In an interview he described a moment when “everything shifted” and as a result the way was opened for him to be re-united with his daughter. He described his gratitude about what happened and also said that when he is with his grand-children his daughter “sees another energy in [him] which takes over”.
There is a fascinating quantum physical process behind what has happened with Jon Voight. And yes, he may say that the solution came in a moment, but that moment in fact took nearly ten years. And at the same time the ten years took only a moment.
This process is all based on two conflicting sides fighting against each other, and finally the two sides become one. This process can go on for years, or it can be resolved in days. The more intense the experience, the greater the moment of wisdom and gratitude is.
Because we were not in his life and in the moment when the conflict started, we will never know the full truth. After all, the truth that is reported in the press is the newsworthy version of what is mostly gossip.
However, in this instance, Jon Voight probably experienced very strong conflicting emotions about his daughter – where he did not want to lose her love and affection, but at the same time he did not want to accept her judgement and rejection.
Such a conflict situation becomes evident when you say, for example, “part of me wants . . . while another part of me wants . . . “”
Those two opposing parts struggle against each other until the inner conflict is resolved. In that moment when the resolution happens, you experience a moment of intense gratitude where a quantum of light is formed in every cell of your body, and you get a glimpse of the Universe. Jon Voight came close to it when he described the moment as “an emotional epiphany”.
In the moment when this change happens, your entire body vibration increases by a notch, and the change in your energy vibration is permanent. That is why his daughter could remark that she sees another energy in him which takes over when he is with his grand-children.
Is it really necessary to carry such a grudge for ten years? Of course not. When you understand the quantum physical process, it is possible to shorten the process to days, or even to hours if you are really willing to work on it. The longer you carry such a grudge and conflict with you, the more damage you do to your physical and emotional body.
And once you have experienced the success of the process and the means of resolving the conflict, you will understand why we go through these processes and experiences during our lives. You may not necessarily look forward to the next conflict, but you will know the signs and what to expect, and it will be easier to resolve the conflict and move on.
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Quickly write down three things you believe about yourself on a piece of paper. Put the paper in your pocket.
Now ask a few people that you have regular contact with to write down three things about you on separate pieces of paper.
Compare the notes.
Who said the positive things about you?
Who said the negative things about you?
Oh, and remember to express gratitude for what you feel when you read the notes.
Love and Light
Elsabe
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What happened to your New Year’s resolutions for last year? Can you remember how long they lasted? And can you remember how you felt when you realised that you had failed in keeping them? You failed yourself.
Why did you make those resolutions in the first place? Of course, you made them because there was a particular part of your life that caused you much stress. Your solution was to make just one change. You fooled yourself into thinking that one change would make everything all right.
And when the change did not last, the situation was actually much worse, because you now felt even more like a failure.
For many people the only reflection they do in the New Year relates to the amount they drank (again) and how they never learn.
Other people do not even tell anyone what their New Year’s resolutions are, because they know from experience that the resolutions will not last into the New Year.
I went through the same vicious cycle for a significant part of my life. I believed that I was powerless to influence the outcome of anything, and therefore I had to just make the best of it.
The more I played the victim, the more I became a victim. I had to learn a few very hard life lessons before I realised that there is a plan behind every one of my experiences.
It was so interesting to note how groups of bad experiences dwindled the moment I “got the message”.
The more I delved into this, the more I discovered a different reality that made complete sense to me.
My own research has uncovered a massive body of knowledge that I started to apply in my own life. I came to see more patterns, more processes, more relationships between people and nature. I became aware of a different reality.
I learnt that some things happen to us because they are inevitable, while other things happen to us because they are part of a much bigger plan. I learnt how to distinguish between the things I had to change and the things I had to accept.
The result was that I no longer make any New Year’s resolutions. I no longer need them. Instead, I become aware of my life plan, and I allow thoughts and ideas to bubble to the surface. I then pick and choose what I want, and see how the thoughts become actions.
A significant outcome for me is significantly reduced stress, and significantly increased peace of mind and contentment.
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Love and Light
Elsabe
PS: I am a professional transition coach. I help individuals and businesses to achieve their personal and commercial objectives.
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