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Murder, yes. Divorce, never (2)

Friday, October 29th, 2010

Hello Lovely People

Continued

Two: A marriage certificate is a legal contract, not a death sentence. The contract is not a guarantee against change. The contract only spells out what the initial agreement was, and in some instances it also documents the agreement on a potential outcome. The contract does not say that you will die if you are in breach. Experience says that you may die from ill health if you insist on never ending the contract and clinging to it at all costs. It’s your call.

Three: There are two people in a marriage. They either grow together, or they grow apart. That is life. When you allow a whole community or society into the marriage, then nobody grows, except in terms of the amount of fear of change that they gather and share.

Every relationship has a natural life cycle. That includes a marriage. If people manage to let go of their fantasies and accept what comes natural, the end of a marriage will be accepted as a wonderful growth experience.

What we have instead is often a prolonged nightmare that is dictated to society by people who either vowed never to marry but made the rules, or who spend lots of energy upholding their own fantasy in the eyes of the world.

Here endeth the sermon.

Now get yourself a coach who understands that divorce is both the end of the world as you know it, and also a tremendous opportunity for growth. Then find your own balance in your thinking, and get an amicable divorce where everyone can congratulate themselves on being better off emotionally and spiritually as a result of the divorce. Then get on with your life.

Or stay married and find yourself a good doctor who will help you camouflage all the symptoms of your distress, and spend all your energy on maintaining a fantasy in the eyes of the world, while you are deeply unhappy.

There is no reason to become a victim when your marriage ends.

I know which approach works – been there, done that, and lived to express my deep gratitude for the experience. I also learned how to cut the process of making sense out of the experience from 10 years to a few hours. It can be done because it is a scientific process that can be repeated at will.

Love and Light
Elsabe
PS: I am The Intuition Coach. I help people who lack clarity, vision and purpose to remove their blocks, discover their intuition and achieve their goals. What is consuming all your energy? Visit www.TheIntuitionCoach.com for a FREE New Start Quiz.


Daydreams And Nightmares Come True

Sunday, September 5th, 2010

Hello Lovely People

Daydreaming means that you consciously go into another dimension and create a pleasant experience.

Having nightmares means that you go to the same dimension at night and recall the unpleasant experiences you fear when you are awake.

Only you have control over your thoughts. Be careful which thoughts you give priority to.

Love and Light
Elsabe
PS: I am The Intuition Coach. I help people who lack clarity, vision and purpose to remove their blocks, discover their intuition and achieve their goals. What is consuming all your energy? Visit www.TheIntuitionCoach.com for a FREE New Start Quiz.


Am I Seeing Things?

Tuesday, August 10th, 2010

Hello Lovely People

How do we react to these changes in the earth’s magnetic field that impact on our bodies?

We have one of three reactions – typical of any new and different experience that we have.

The first reaction is flight. People notice that there are rapid changes in their physical world, and they are aware that “something is not right” – in other words, they feel the changes in their physical bodies. They want to defend themselves against this change by withdrawing. “If I ignore everything that does not make sense to me or that I dislike, it will go away.”

When flight does not work because the changes are everywhere on this earth, the next option is fight. This can take many forms, from verbal attacks on people who acknowledge the changes, to wars with the purpose of keeping things the same- or changing things to be “my way, which is superior to yours”.

I have received emails and other communications from people who do not want to have anything to do with me, and they get quite vocal in their disapproval of the information that I speak and write about. Often I can smell their fear, because they realize that what I and others like me say could be true. They do not want to let go of their fears, prejudices and superstitions, because they cannot face the resulting void. They do not understand that the void is necessary to make space for new thinking and experiences that will be at a higher level than what they leave behind.

The third option is neither flight nor fight. This option is being aware of the changes that are happening, and finding ways to deal with a new world. This group of people are often confused by the changes, but they know escape is not an option. They also know that fighting is not an option. They look for information. They search for clarity.

The people in this last category are those whose senses are becoming sharper. Some people become aware of movement and recognize entities in their ethereal bodies. This could be quite scary, especially if you think you are the only person experiencing this.

Other people are intuitively in closer contact with their loved ones, and know when things will happen before they happen. This is new and different, and often people don’t know what to make of it.

People who have never really noticed their dreams, get “nightmares” full of symbols that they do not understand. There are more instances of coincidence and synchronicity, and people want explanations for this.

Old paradigms and belief systems are questioned and fail the test of authenticity. This leaves us in a void that will be filled. Where people do not recognize the void, they feel fear of the unknown.

How do you react to these changes?

Love and Light
Elsabe
PS: I am The Intuition Coach. I help people who lack clarity, vision and purpose to remove their blocks, discover their intuition and achieve their goals. What is consuming all your energy? Visit www.TheIntuitionCoach.com for a FREE New Start Quiz.