I like to believe that there is good in every person, and all we need to do is keep looking and keep loving.
I am also realistic because life has taught me that this approach only works up to a point. Some people are on this earth to spread poison and malice, and with the best will in the world you cannot change them, because their mission is not to change.
There have been times in my life when I was so bombarded with negative energy that I felt I was being dragged down into the same space as the people who projected their lack of self-love on me. I have had to make some very hard decisions about people that were supposed to be close to me, but who were clearly out to destroy me. I had to distance myself from those people and it was very painful but necessary for my own survival.
The consequence was that by detaching myself from the person and the situation, I discovered what those people had to teach me. I was then able to appreciate the wisdom I gained from them and think of them with unconditional love – or so I thought. The love was there, but on the condition that despite my gratitude towards them, I had to stay away from them if I wanted to be my true self.
I discovered that as people we are not capable of unconditional love, but we are capable of forgiveness – in the sense that forgiveness means understanding what those people have had to teach us, and feeling gratitude for the wisdom we gained from our experience.
Social media is no different from life – in fact, social media contacts are probably even more intense and instructive than having personal contact with people.
When we have personal contact with people, we can lie and pretend, and get away with it for a while. With social media, every word and sentence you type carries its own energy, and people pick that energy up, even if they deny that such energy exists.
I have blocked contact with a handful of people of the type of “hi mem I want to merry nice amerikin girl mem do you life alone mem”. I have blocked contact with one other person who was incredibly destructive and who on more than one occasion had a field day while intoxicated, only to brag about the situation afterwards.
I do believe in freedom of speech, and I also believe that bad energy rubs off. There are times when you have to decide to either love and leave a contact, or be dragged down to the level where that contact feels comfortable. This is no different from life away from the internet, just more intense and therefore happening much faster.
If you ever decide to block a social media contact, I trust that you will do it with love and understanding rather than with anger and resentment.
Love and Light
Elsabe
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Do you realize what a work of art your human body is?
Reflexologists can diagnose and pinpoint the stress in your body by pressing on various parts of your feet and hands.
Homeopaths can diagnose dis-ease in the body by looking into your eye.
The ancient Chinese diagnosed dis-ease by feeling your ear.
Even today people give up smoking by means of acupuncture treatment on the ear.
Your entire body is represented in every other part of your body.
Isn’t that a miracle?
Love and Light
Elsabe
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Do you realise that nothing on this earth exists unless someone has first imagined it?
What are you imagining for yourself?
Do you allow yourself to imagine in details, because you understand that imagination is the beginning of creation? Or do you only imagine a vague picture because you do not trust the process?
Do you allow yourself to dream big, or do you stay on safe grounds and dream small with no real challenge?
Love and Light
Elsabe
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If you look back at your life, you will notice times that were quiet, and other times where there were much upheaval and lots of changes.
Think of the times when there was much upheaval. Notice the time lapse between these major changes for you. Can you see the pattern?
Here is something else that you may notice: major upheaval is followed by quiet times – times of settling down and beginning anew.
For me, these cycles last about nine years – sometimes more, sometimes less. And somehow, for me, the upheaval is bigger each time a cycle is completed. But the wonderful pattern continues – the void left by the changes is also bigger every time, and therefore the new cycle is also more powerful and more rewarding.
I have so much to look forward to.
Another interesting thing is that the changes in my life have a ripple effect – it also affects the people that I have contact with. I have a feeling that you should keep regular contact with me
Love and Light
Elsabe
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If you are saying no, is it because you have not had a reason for laughing?
Do you need a reason to laugh? No, you don’t. Just start laughing from your belly and feel how your body and state of mind changes.
You do not need to tell any jokes to laugh, because you will eventually run out of jokes and you will encounter offensive jokes.
What happens when you laugh from your belly? You massage your diaphragm, thorax, abdomen, heart, lungs and liver. The laughter stimulates the production of the alertness hormones catecholamines, which in turn cause the release of endorphins in the brain. Endorphins provide a sense of relaxation and well-being and dull the perception of pain.
Just laugh for the sake of laughing and see what a difference it makes.
Love and Light
Elsabe
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There are times when you are adamant about going in a particular direction. Then life steers you in another direction and you believe you have failed.
How do you deal with that?
Take a step back and look at the bigger picture. You could focus on your “failure” and make it worse, or you could see that experience as a necessary small step leading towards a big step and eventual success.
It is all about perception and going with the flow.
Love and Light
Elsabe
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There are times when I think that what I want to achieve is impossible.
When that happens, I remind myself of two examples of doing just that.
In terms of aerodynamic design, a bumble bee should not be able to fly at all – but nobody ever told the bee that!
A conference organizer, at the start of his career, was told to host an event for an unknown speaker. He felt quite daunted by the challenge of getting 5 000 people together for this event, but started working immediately. A few weeks later he had to get a bigger venue, because there were already 6 000 attendees. He was so busy organizing and marketing that he did not listen to anyone who tried to advise him.
He only discovered afterwards that nobody expected him to get more than 100 attendees interested in the event.
It is possible to achieve anything. Remember that, Elsabe!
Love and Light
Elsabe
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Some people will read this title and say “Of course we know where stuff comes from. They come from shops, farms, factories etc etc.”
But I am referring to the original process of creation.
For example, where can you find me a table tennis ball catcher? If you cannot find one, and you have to design one, where will the design come from?
I am not only talking about things – you also came from that same place after your parents first had the creative thought – the design and manufacturing action followed later
Love and Light
Elsabe
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There are times when it feels like you are achieving nothing, despite your best efforts. These are the times when you need to trust.
We have a life plan and we live that life plan. Sometimes our attention is distracted by mundane things and we lose faith.
Then we see miracles unfolding and we stand in awe of the Plan that we are living here, and we regain our faith.
Faith is always there and never fails. We are the ones that fail when we lose focus.
Love and Light
Elsabe
PS: I am The Intuition Coach. I help people who lack clarity, vision and purpose to remove their blocks, discover their intuition and achieve their goals. What is consuming all your energy? Visit www.TheIntuitionCoach.com for a FREE New Start Quiz.
